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Alex Adamov's avatar

Great piece. The relationship between autonomy and intrinsic motivation is often notable in sports. Agassi hated his life because he had a drill sergeant father and no amount of extrinsic rewards could compensate for the perceived lack of freedom.

I am curious about how we form goals. This is still a mystery to me. In my case I had no relatable peers to justify choosing the specific goals I chose in my life. Yet somehow I believed there was a clear relationship between effort and desired outcome and that gave me a significant amount of intrinsic motivation.

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Yonatan's avatar

Fascinating essay.

Are you familiar with Randall Collins's theory of Emotional Energy and Interaction Ritual Chains

(https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Randall_Collins)?

His theories compliment what you've written.

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